Communication & Etiquette in BDSM

Elegance is the first form of submission.

As a professional Mistress and Dominatrix in Berlin, I work with clear rules of communication and etiquette.
A well-prepared session begins long before the first moment of eye contact — with structure, respect and precision.

House Rules

Before contacting me, please understand the following.

I do not sell minutes.
I create experiences of power exchange.

Communication should be:

• clear
• respectful
• structured

If you contact me without preparation, it immediately shows how seriously you take the experience.

And I will treat your request accordingly.

I respond only to serious enquiries.

Communication — Precision Matters

Every session begins long before you enter the room.

Proper preparation means that I understand your preferences, fetishes and limits.
Due to the number of enquiries I receive, it is impossible to remember every detail without clear written communication.

Written communication creates clarity and structure.

Preferred Contact

Contact Form
Phone call on the days when I am in the studio

Your First Message Should Include

• your kinks / fetishes / limits
• preferred date
• time
• desired duration of the session

Reservation

Because my time is planned carefully and exclusively, a deposit is required in order to reserve an appointment.

The deposit is typically min €100, depending on the duration of the session.

Available deposit options:

• Instant bank transfer to my account (Commerzbank, Revolut)

• Tipfunder (anonymous for both parties)

• Amazon gift card code (anonymous)

Appointments are confirmed only after the deposit has been received.

Why deposit is necessary - you can read here

Once the deposit arrives, the room is prepared and the time slot is reserved exclusively for our playdate.

Without a deposit, I do not hold appointments and can't discuss roleplays in details.

Etiquette — The Art of Arrival

When you visit a Mistress, you are not simply booking time.

You are entering a ritual.

How you arrive.
How you present yourself.
How you behave.

All of this speaks before you say a word.

Tribute

The tribute is presented at the beginning of the session:

• in cash
• in an envelope
• quietly and discreetly

And remember:

You are not paying for my time.
You are paying because I choose to let you leave. 😈

Flowers

Fragrant lilies are my favorite.

Their scent remains in the room like the echo of a perfect session.

If you want me to remember you for days afterwards, this is the way.

If you cannot find lilies:

Any flowers are better than arriving empty-handed.

Chocolate

The finer, the better.

I rarely eat sweets — but when I do, it is only the best.

Rituals

Fragrance sets or candles from Rituals are a thoughtful choice and fit perfectly into my world.

Gifts Outside a Session

If you wish to bring me a small pleasure outside of a session, my Throne wishlist is the appropriate place.

Refined gestures. Quiet elegance.